I have been working hard this week (Enjoying it) and I can feel my lungs reaching the urge to explode. That is not just a figure of speech. That is describing how my lungs really are feeling today. I talked so much without little breaks that my lungs feel very tired now. Breathing is tiring but I just keep breathing. (like duh!)
I don't have a pair of weak lungs, I suppose.But they feel injured.
First my stomach, now my lungs. So one step up would be my head?

Why do we always judge others? Why do we judge ourselves? And why do we allow others to judge us?
Whose opinions carry the right weight and whose matters?

I judge people I do not have a natural liking for. Ain't no saint and even though I know I am in no better position myself, I still do that.
Vonx judged herself as a lousy girlfriend in her blog and I told her comparing to some girlfriend I don't like, I feel we are much better anyway.
It was only after I sent that msg out, I realised whose talking?All the sudden, I just feel like one of those stupid bitches out there.
Sigh.

Judging others.
Have you ever thought of why do you judge others? More often than not, those subject to our judgement are those whom we just don't like.(Just admit that.)
And really have you admit that in a way of so, you just hate their guts?Maybe in a teeny weeny way or so, you could be jealous of them for something? To overcome or simply hide that matter, you judge traits of them that seem so undesirable to you.
THIS does not refer to that girlfriend I mentioned in the previous paragraph. I just feel she is undeserved. I am mainly referring to someone(s) else.

Judging ourselves.
I suppose this is not totally bad. Being able to self reflect is a good habit but never become your own enemy. I never think I am perfect but I know to recognize my own virtues. Maybe that is too good of a word to use. Maybe I should say I know where to stop blaming myself till my esteem diminishes to zero.
When the time hits like "I am no good, I am no good.", quickly deflect it with "I am not bad either, I am not bad either." or "He/she is no better"

Allowing others to judge ourselves.
Guess that can't be help but at least but kind. Even if you wanna judge others, do it in your heart.At most share it with the ones you trust and close to, never the world.

My lungs still feel 'painful' and I feel like lying down...
Over exersion, I guess.

Random pictures.
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Pu Er tea wins anytime.

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Um..I'm sick of both now.
Tie.

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Lovely pictures from Wo Bao. Fairytale wedding wins anytime.
US Walt Disney have gowns and wedding shoots there.
Princess dreams, princess castle, princess gowns and princess PRICE!